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By Rick
Freedom
A first date is a lot like a job interview.
Each party is questioning the other to
determine if a longer-term relationship is
possible. Chemistry, compatibility, and common
interests are all laid out on the table in an
effort to create a love match, making for some
unwanted stress in an otherwise pleasurable
situation.
But first dates don’t have to be life-or-death
situations, and in fact, they can be fun! As
with anything in life, a little planning can go
a long way in creating a memorable evening. In
this article, you’ll learn some tips on how to
make a great first impression on your first
date. Follow these guidelines, and a second
date may be in your future.
Get Dolled Up
This tip should go without saying, but for safe
measure, let’s cover it. You can’t expect to
attract a mate by looking your worst, so make
hygiene of the utmost importance. Shower, dress
your best, brush your teeth, and do anything
else that makes you feel good. Appearance is
directly related to self confidence, so why not
make the most out of it?
Take a Deep Breath
In other words, relax. If you think about it, a
first date is just one person getting to know
another person, and nothing more. If the two of
you mesh, that’s great! If you don’t, then
better luck next time. At any rate, if you’re
nervous, it’s going to show, and your date will
be uncomfortable alongside you.
Pick an Ideal Spot
Where you take your date is just as important
as what you say or do. A certain location can
make or break chemistry, so pick your spot
carefully. As typical as dinner and a movie is,
this date is known for maximizing uncomfortable
silences, while minimizing chemistry. A good
alternative is a location that allows for
conversation, while enhancing emotions. Here
are a few suggestions:
§ Local concerts
§ Sporting events
§ Comedy clubs
§ Miniature golfing or bowling
§ Amusement parks
Examine Yourself
Before you head out to your date, take an
inventory of your life. Ask yourself what
you’re proud of accomplishing, and know what
you’re passionate about. Think of any funny
stories you could tell your date. On that same
note, know what you’re looking for in a mate,
and make no exceptions if the other person
doesn’t match those criteria. A little
preparation ahead of time can save you tons of
aggravation in the long run.
Give and Take
There’s nothing worse than someone who talks
nonstop about themselves. When in conversation,
take a break from talking about yourself, and
ask your date questions. What do they enjoy
doing? How did they fall into their career?
Where are they originally from? Showing
interest in the other person is not only
considerate, but it also lends itself to a
deeper discussion.
Be Confident (Not Cocky)
It’s no secret that confidence is sexy, but
there is such a thing as having too much of it.
Describing your accomplishments is one thing,
but bragging or being arrogant will only
backfire on you. A person who talks endlessly
about his or her attributes tends to appear
insecure to others. After all, if someone is
truly confident, they wouldn’t feel the need to
promote their strong points.
Listen To Your Mother
When it comes to manners and behaving yourself,
your mother was dead on. Open the door for your
date; cover your mouth when you cough; and
don’t forget to say excuse me, please, and
thank you. When chewing your food, keep your
mouth closed, and under no circumstances pick
your nose (or any other bodily crevice). This
tip may seem mundane, but it’s so important,
that it must be covered.
Conclusion
If you take the fuss out of a first date,
you’ll realize that it’s just a fun way of
getting to know another human being. While you
may feel like you’re under a microscope, it’s
important to just relax and enjoy yourself.
Fill the conversation with details about your
life, and be sure to learn about the person
sitting next to you. Dress to impress, and
behave in a likewise manner. Follow these
simple tips on how to make a great first
impression on your first date, and you’ll be
sure to land a second!
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